Life is made up of good days and bad days. Today is one where I've bruised my head running up against an unmovable opinion. The horrible thing is I agree with the opinion, but the way it was laid out as an ultimatum has made this into a lose-lose situation. Now, I'm trying to find a way to salvage it, while screaming inside my brain about the insanity and stupidity that lead to this. Adages such as "a rock and a hard place" are flitting alongside "spilled milk"... Laying blame doesn't lead to results. I believe you must deal with the situation/person who is in front of you, not the reality you want. Ultimatums won't give you the situation or person you want, just makes most things worse. Well, time to ponder...
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